For Sara and Kai Bitter and their sons, summer camp is more than just a yearly tradition; it’s a mission-driven experience that fosters inclusivity and belonging. The family, which includes 20-year-old Austin and his younger brother, Jasper, 14, has found a supportive community at Camp at the J, where children of all abilities come together for a fun summer experience.
Austin and Jasper were born with a developmental disability. Filled with hope for their future, Sara and Kai exhaustively searched for ways to ensure Austin and Jasper would get the social, emotional, and educational support needed. With continued advocacy, the boys have been able to make significant strides forward.
The boys thrive in environments that emphasize inclusivity. Jasper recently graduated eighth grade at Sycamore Junior High School, and is involved in several extracurricular activities, including the swim team, track team, and band. Austin is participating in a launch transition program aimed at job readiness, with placements at the local Blue Ash Branch Library and a veterinarian’s office.
When asked why they chose Camp at the J eleven years ago, Sara said, “We heard positive things about how the camp fosters a sense of community through an inclusive model where typically developing campers are together with children with disabilities…The JCC’s mission aligns perfectly with our family values. It’s a welcoming place where everyone feels they belong.”
Austin began attending camp at eight years old, while Jasper started at age five. Their experiences have been transformative. “Austin participated in a talent show at camp and now loves performing on stage,” their mother recalled. “Jasper loves the field trips, all the outdoor activities, and especially enjoys swimming.” Flagpole is another favorite activity for the Bitter boys as they get to cheer and sing with the entire camp each morning.
The impact of Camp at the J extends beyond engaging summer activities. “The inclusion aspect has been crucial,” Sara explained. “Austin has developed essential skills that have prepared him for the real world, and Jasper has learned how to be more independent.” Camp at the J’s advocate program, which provides a 1:1 or 2:1 advocate for children with varying needs at no additional cost to the family, has played a significant role in this growth, allowing the boys to navigate challenges with support while also learning to advocate for themselves. Additionally, Austin and Jasper were immediately accepted into the fold with other campers – playing games, engaging in activities, and even sharing some laughs. They never felt like they were missing out due to disability. “Everyone has different approaches with how they raise their children. Out of all the places I’ve sent my kids to, the JCC has been the most accepting and welcoming place for children with disabilities that I’ve ever seen. Not many places are as welcoming as the Mayerson JCC, particularly Camp at the J.”
Reflecting on their journey, the Bitter boys have faced some struggles, but experienced remarkable growth and progress. Finding opportunities for inclusion is their lived experience, and they are very grateful that Camp at the J so readily embraces this need. “Disability is part of diversity, and the JCC embraces this wholeheartedly. It’s a rare find,” Sara noted.
Last year marked Jasper’s final summer at camp, as both Bitter children have now aged out. Austin and Jasper are still in contact with their advocates, Sam and Jami, and have forged a connection that extends beyond the walls of the JCC. The family hopes to continue to remain connected to the JCC community, which they describe as a unique organization doing invaluable work.
The Bitter family truly found their place at camp, surrounded by people who share their values and celebrate diversity in all its forms. In a world where belonging can sometimes feel elusive, Camp at the J transformed into their safe haven, a place where Austin and Jasper could thrive, without judgement.
